My New York heart breaks for Paris. Â We are a city with a pain tattoo, and we understand what it feels like in Paris, right now, I think. Â I hear people trying to talk about being brave and not letting the terrorists win, and I hear others talking about being afraid, and wanting to leave the city. Both are valid positions. Â The important thing is not to give in to hate. Â That's what they want. Â The Empire State Building is dark tonight. Â Reste forte, Paris!